What to expect when you have a baby

One of the things that scared me a lot when I was pregnant was the hospital stay. I didn't know what to expect or what was going to happen really. So, since it is my son's second birthday today and I am reminiscing on his birth, I thought I would share some important things to expect when you have a baby!

 

1) If this is your first baby, expect a long labor and delivery. This may not happen for you, but it is better to be ready that it will likely happen and expect it than be surprised. My labor and delivery together was 14 hours long.

 

2) Expect lots of beeps and noises. You are hooked to several machines. Sometimes they beep loudly and make lots of noises. Don't be alarmed and automatically assume something is wrong with you or your baby. The nurses stay at a nurses station and constantly monitor you. If something is wrong they will know immediately and come to you.

 

3) Expect lots of pokes and "checking". If you are induced, then you will have to have pitocin and an IV for sure. They will check this and change this. If you have an epidural, you will have several more pokes. And by the way, I was petrified of the epidural and it was not bad at all. Just a little sting and it was over! However, make sure your anesthesiologist is available for a little while after you get it in case it doesn't work. They will also come and "check" you often to see your dilation, effacement, etc. This can very uncomfortable but isn't always.

 

4) Expect that if something goes wrong, to stay as calm as possible. You don't want to get too worked up for yourself and the baby. The nurses and doctors know what they are doing so trust them.

 

5) Make sure you rest while you can. Lots of people will be checking in and wanting to know if your baby is here! Try and relax during all labor if you can and then let people know when the baby comes. Labor and delivery is hard work and you need your rest!

 

6) Expect to have your baby about 45 minutes to 1 hour after they are born and then for them to go to the nursery for a while. They have to clean them, test them, etc. During this time you will likely be moved to another room if delivery and post-partum rooms are separated.

 

Hope this helps to know what to expect a little more! Good luck!

 

Until next time,